Taking The Right For Female Pleasure, Desire And Self Love On The Road

Taking The Right For Female Pleasure, Desire And Self Love On The Road


This is a wonderful article by an awesome lady :)

and so it begins....

.... it's been a couple weeks since the last time you've had sex. All you want is for your significant other to give you "that look" and you'll be all over him.. but you know it won't happen tonight. In fact, it'll take another week for him to clue in. Just when you start to feel silly for being so desperate he pulls you towards him and locks your lips in a sensual embrace... mmm... tonight will be niiiice.

Now you just feel stupid right? -- he already got the memo and wasn't that concerned about it. He knows you'll be here forever - no matter how busy you get he'll be there once things cool down..  hell, you're in a committed relationship!!! But, as usual, you overanalyze everything that happens before the bedroom.. why do you always want it? Is he uninterested in you now that you've gained 20lbs?... nope.. he still gets hard when you start whispering dirty thoughts in his ear. Why is it always YOU that has to "ask"? - Don't most women just wait for the man to put a move on her?! Now you're concerned that you are "addicted to sex" and that you are some sort of freak...

The media, TV, and movies has always portrayed the female as being uninterested in sex. We always have a headache, or we're too tired... or the guy has to convince us to have sex. So, when you're the one that's always trying to have sex in your relationship, certainly there's something wrong with you, right?! - WRONG! Why not be turned on easily? Already, one of the perks is that those "quickies" that sometimes happen end up working quite well for you since you're ready 24/7!! You're not a freak, junkie, or even a frustrated person. Most likely you just reallllllyyyy enjoy having sex with your man and would love to do it more often. I know I do!

We need more turned-on women to voice how they feel! Artists like Peaches, Lady Gaga, and Rihanna are definitely giving women a louder voice .... but why is this so difficult?! We're the ones that have raging hormones at different times each month. We're the ones that often take longer to get "warmed up" down there... so shouldn't it be good for us to take the time to feel sexy everyday?! Well, I think it's important. No one ever talks about a woman masturbating or having fantasies (unless it's about the repair man) - and we usually assume the submissive role in these fantasies shown in movies and TV. Where's the woman who masturbates while imagining herself lightly (or roughly, whatever does it for ya!) whipping her man who's tied up at her boots?... well, she's shown as the "slut" of the film, most likely. But, fantasies are the least of the problems with today's culture.

For centuries women were without rights and power.... and somehow we still seem to think that the man will be the only one who's horny. Well, I've got news for ya!.. everyone gets sexually excited at one time or another. Some more than others, and yes, some to an unhealthy amount! However, I believe that it is a sign of health (in body and in your relationship) to be aroused easily by your significant other. This is also true for singles... it's totally fine if you can picture your hot date naked... (I won't give my own opinion on when to first have sex with someone since that is a very personal decision for every person - however, I always practice safe sex! But, I digress.) 

The reason I decided to start this blog is to let other horny, freaky, weird, and probably frustrated women out there know that you're not alone. There's lots of us that are quietly masturbating as our man drifts to sleep with a half-mast. Similarly, many men are more interested in sex than their partners. This blog is for both men and women who are wondering how "normal" they are. My guess, you're probably normal.

If you only want sex with your loved one and they are what turns you on the most - great! If you see other people that remind you of them (and you think how hot/beautiful your significant other is) - great! Of course, if you fantasize about everyone and the need for sex interrupts your daily life (besides making you have to rub one out before bed once in awhile) then perhaps you do need to see your doctor. For the rest of us, we are just very sexual beings - 'nuff said. Except, I'll keep saying it..... :)